Strange Beginnings

That first summer, I still had a year left of school and a planned internship in southern Arizona working for the US Fish and Wildlife Service that I had hoped would turn into a full time position after graduation.  No time for a significant other who certainly did not fit into my life plans.  The ranch hand and I had discussed his interest in endeavors in the northwestern parts of the country, and so, when an opportunity arose during a festive birthday celebration and gathering, we (that very same compadre who introduced us, a wild northern NM woman and friend, and myself) took it upon ourselves to design this cowboy a resume and send it off via the "intronet".  Long story short, he got the job, I got the internship, and we "parted" ways, only to speak for hours upon end on the telephone.  Great way to "save" time and myself a relationship, right?

Ranching in central Montana was a tough adjustment for a New Mexico cowboy.  He went from long days burning both ends of the candle horseback to turning wrenches and baling hay from a tractor cab.  He often took to running laps to the fence line and back to the tractor to burn off steam.  In those first few months, he may (or may not) have packed on an extra 40 pounds, while his horse may have gained close to 200.   Hay that year took over a month to put up, followed by months of hauling it in off of the fields.  

A year down the road, with a job offer on the table, and a dinner conversation ringing in my memory during which I told the ranch hand's oldest brother that we would either continue our relationship based on my job in the southwest, or we would discontinue things altogether.  I would not be moving to Montana.  Yeah right.  End of May, I convinced my dearest friend, and possibly the only person who could survive a road trip of that magnitude with two dogs, a filly, and a freshly weaned colt to make the trek across the country and turned down the job with US Fish and Wildlife Service.

 Excited to get a foot in the door in the ranching industry and to work alongside a New Mexico cowboy, with a grand plan of getting a few years of experience under my belt and then applying to Texas A&M's Kingsville Ranch Management program.  Thus would begin six months of so much experience (thought not what I had intended or thought), so much gained, and so much that was let go of.     

“If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him your plans.” ― Iyanla Vanzant

"Forget college, I think I'll just move to Montana and go work on a ranch," said my teenage self.  "I won't ever get married," was a statement my brother so kindly reminded me of at our wedding.  "I don't want kids," I always said.  "I'll marry a 'Smith' when I grow up," were the words of a frustrated young girl teased by her last name (which so happened to be shared with a tasty, salted snack).  

Fast forward so many (unstated) years to a college career that eventually led to a Bachelor of Science in Agriculture and a respectable job with the U.S. Fish and Wildlife Service.  Somewhere along that journey, despite my best efforts to remain single, a "fateful" road trip with a class mate and compadre ensued.  During a Thanksgiving vacation when most students were visiting family, we made the trek across the deserts of New Mexico to a dusty, windy, pile or dirt out in the desert that someone decided to call a "ranch" where a few hundred wiley, mismatched cattle worked too hard to make a living.  It was there we were greeted through the truck window by a gruff cowboy with few manners who resembled Josh Lucas and drove a red 80's model Chevy far too fast down an ungroomed dirt road to his single wide trailer that was suitable for the sole purpose of arsen.  

This eventually leads us to where we are today:  Still together, though sharing a common last name (with far too many consonants and far too few vowels), with a sassy, smart, sweet, redheaded toddler, far too many dogs, a few too many horses, and a barn cat running cattle for an outfit in big sky country, and living "the dream".  The stories that ensue are a collection of memories and adventures that I've been wanting to write down, and possibly share with some of you who might find them amusing.  I'm sure that there will be a continuing stream of things that are worth talking about as soon as a person has had the time to get back up, dust their pants off, take a shower, grab a bite and "get over it".